With a highly qualified team guiding you from your initial inquiry until your honeymoon getaway, you’ll have every question answered —sometimes before you even think to ask it! Read below for the answers to some of our most-asked questions. And if you don’t see what you need? Just reach out!
We LOVE working with clients who know nothing about wedding planning — that is what we are here for! Do you have a venue? If not, that is the first step! We offer complimentary venue recommendations to help you get started!
We do not. We specialize in Big Island weddings. We’ve found that we can only offer this exceptional level of service and expertise when we narrow in on one market— in this case, the Big Island. Because it is hard for most vendor categories to serve more than one island (other than vendors like photo/video), each island has different available rentals, types of caterers, venues to learn, floral pricing, etc., and we are not able to serve our couples at the level they deserve when we don’t know the lay of the land. Every wedding would be reinventing the wheel rather than building on the knowledge that came before it.
Everyone on our team also lives on the Big Island, which is essential to be your eyes and ears when you're planning a destination wedding. We’re at the farmers market trying a new cupcake vendor, or at a happy hour hearing a new musician. We know the best beaches to host a welcome beach day and the best bar for your bachelorette because we live here. That level of local knowledge is just not possible if we were to plan from afar. If you are planning a wedding on another island, please feel free to reach out to us anyway though and we would be happy to point you in the right direction of some wonderful planners on the other islands.
Submit your filled-out proposal questionnaire and we will write you a custom proposal for the services we think you’ll need based on your questionnaire. You will review that proposal on a call with your planner and she can answer all of your questions about the next steps. You will usually receive your proposal within 48 hours of sending it in unless we are out at a wedding, but often faster than that.
We hope so! Shoot us a quick email to find out! If we're unavailable, or not a fit, we will provide you with a list of the other great wedding planners on our Island for you to reach out to!
Probably not! The shortest amount of time we’ve ever spent planning and coordinating a wedding was just two weeks before the wedding. Email us to see if we are available—even if your wedding is right around the corner—you won’t regret having our team on your side.
Almost always no—it is extremely rare. The only exceptions would be for two very very small weddings, or elopements, or in the case of postponements where we do not have another option.
Our team is happy to book weddings up to two years in advance! If you love to check things off your list early and feel you're ready to secure your date, we recommend reaching out as soon as possible.
Yes absolutely! We offer up to 90 minutes of a complimentary consultation call for couples who are investigating if Hawaii, or the Big Island, will be a good fit.
Before we schedule a consultation call, we ask that you start by filling out our proposal questionnaire. We can get up to 40 inquiries per week, so the questionnaire process allows us to make sure we are a fit for what you are looking for before scheduling a call. Without this process, we would spend all of our time on consultation calls and not planning weddings!
You can, but we recommend starting with the complimentary venue recs. Then, if you’d like help with your venue search, our Kickstarter package could be a great fit. With our Kickstarter package, you’ll get 6 planning hours that we can put towards anything you’d like. It’s perfect for couples who want to to test drive working with a wedding planner before adding more hours, or couples who just want a little help to get started.
Absolutely! We prioritize making all couples feel welcomed, supported, and well taken care of. This is a safe space for you.
We've compiled the reviews scattered between Google, Facebook, WeddingWire, and The Knot on to our Testimonials page. If you’d like to get a reference from a couple we have worked with in the past, we have a list of couples that we can put you in touch with!
Kate started Sunshower Weddings in 2016 as a venue on her coffee farm, Sunshower Farms. Since then, our team has grown to the five of us, and together we have planned and coordinated over 300 weddings! None of the planners on our team went to college for wedding planning (that is not even really a thing), but we all have Bachelor’s degrees or beyond and are extremely skilled at the logistics of events.
We all came to wedding planning for different reasons, but the common theme is that we are all great at planning weddings, staying calm under pressure, and executing events at an exceptionally high level. No one on our team became a wedding planner just because of the love of designing weddings (although we do like that part too). We all have a passion for well done logistics— you have to be a special kind of weirdo to savor a precise shuttle schedule, and we all have that in common.
Usually, no more than 50 weddings in a year, but each planner on our team takes no more than 2 per month. And for clients who’ve booked enough hours to plan their full weddings, we clear even more time on our calendars to make sure we can give every couple fast response times and individualized attention.
We have so many wonderful planners on this island, many of whom we are lucky enough to call friends! And you will certainly be well-served by those planners just like you would be by Sunshower. However, there are so many things that make us different!
Kate, Alison, Cami, Falynn, and Jazmin all offer wedding planning and on-site coordination. You will have just one of us assigned as your lead and main point of contact and she will also be the lead planner on the day of your wedding. But we work as a team, and from time to time, like when your lead is on vacation or you have a task one of us specializes in, you might work with another planner.
If you have a preference for working with one of us in particular, you can request that planner in your initial proposal questionnaire. But for most of our clients, we assign their lead planner based on the date, the planner’s experience with your venue, and personality fit.
While we all are able to plan all types of weddings, we also each have venues we love best or that we specialize in. When a couple inquires, we work hard to pair you with the best planner for your needs!
And even though you will be assigned one lead planner as your go-to-girl, we all work together on your wedding. We have weekly team meetings where we check in with all of our weddings and share ideas and resources. These meetings also allow us to be kept up-to-date with all of each other’s clients so that if there were an emergency that prevented your planner from being there on your wedding day, any of us could step in and coordinate your wedding.
Our office hours are not set— they depend on the week and what days we have weddings. Unlike many mainland wedding planners, we do not only have weddings on the weekend— they are happening every day of the week! We are all in the office 5ish days a week and try to have lots of time available on our call schedulers for clients. Our admin, Sam, is also only in the office, so she is available to clients when we are out at events for faster assistance!
Communication preferences vary between planners on the team, but in general, couples are encouraged to email their planner for anything we need to have a record of— like your final catering decisions. But for quick questions, texting is great! And for something you’d like to talk through, clients can always schedule a call with us!
We do! Most of our elopement clients book our Kickstarter package and use the 6 planning hours included in that package to plan their elopement. Occasionally, we add on more hours if needed, but usually that is all that is needed. We’ve never had an elopement couple who have needed us to be on-site for coordination, because we help couples book great vendors for all of their services who can handle everything without our team coordinating.
There isn’t a planning service that we don’t offer - our team does it all. Budgeting is our bread and butter - the more detailed the spreadsheet, the more we love it. Design is usually approached as a collaboration between the planner and the couple, but we are happy to take on as much of the design as you’d like. It is usually the most fun part of wedding planning (other than the cake tasting).
In addition, we will handle as many of the usual planning tasks for you as you’d like, we also run errands, accept packages, finish DIY projects, steam linens, create stationery designs and more. All of those things will be billed as planning hours though - so for most clients, in order to be mindful of their budgets, they choose to use our time on the services that will give them the most peace of mind and help take the most of of their plates.
This is a tricky one - especially with destination weddings! Before COVID-19, the 'two-thirds of the guests will attend’ rule used to be a pretty good guess, but nowadays, we see RSVP percentages all over the map. For budgeting, we typically recommend budgeting for the max that you think could realistically attend if all of the stars aligned. But in practice, we usually see somewhere between 50 and 75% RSVP rate.
An important exception to this is micro weddings where you’ve hand-selected only your closest friends and immediate family to invite. Usually, we see nearly 100% RSVP rates for those weddings!
You’ll have complete control! There are a few things we will insist upon though, like rain plans, insurance, guest transportation for people who have been drinking, and anything else that concerns safety and the practicality of your event. But other than that, you’re the boss!
Kate was a lawyer before she was a wedding planner. Hourly “billing” just felt natural to Kate so that is how we started doing things at the beginning. But since then, we have also found that hourly billing is loved by our clients!
Those on a budget can plan most of their wedding using their portal and keep their planning costs low. Anything you can do yourself (using your client portal) is something you don’t need to pay us to organize! Hourly planning is also super transparent and allows our couples to see exactly what we’re working on and how long it’s taking.
Even though it’s not common, we strongly believe that hourly planning is the best pricing model for wedding planning - particularly for destination weddings.
The two other pricing models that most planners use are “Flat-rate” planning and "percentage-based" planning.
Flat rate packages are created using the needs of the average client. This means that clients who are quick to respond, decisive, and do a lot of their planning tasks themselves are subsidizing clients who don’t. It also means clients may be paying for services they don’t want or need, just because those are in the package. We much prefer to just charge everyone for exactly what they use!
Percentage-based pricing is a model where a planner’s fee will be set based on a percentage of the final cost of the wedding. This is the pricing system used by most luxury planners. It makes a lot of sense because the more expensive a wedding is, usually the more time-consuming it is to plan and the higher the expectations of the couple. We love percentage pricing in theory and many of our collegues use this model. But because most of our couples are planning destination weddings, and we often do not meet them in person until their weddings, we want a relationship that is built in trust from day-one. Even though it is not true, percentage-based pricing can sometimes create a perception that the planner is referring a more expensive vendor so that their planning fee will increase. We want our couples to trust that when we are recommending someone more expensive, it is just because they are the better fit for that event! We also want to be saving you money anywhere we can - and with percentage-based pricing, we would be getting paid less anytime we did our jobs better by finding you ways to cut costs.
We have a detailed spreadsheet for every couple where we track all of our tasks and the time it takes to do them. Couples will receive monthly planning statements from our team so that they always know how we are using their planning hours and on what. If at any time couples need more planning time, they can add planning hours. Any unused planning hours are refunded after the event. It's common for our couples to add on time and also to be refunded a small amount of their planning hours after their wedding. Either way it is usually only a little bit because we are great at estimating how many planning hours our couples will need from their initial questionnaire.
That depends on the level of service you want. While of course you could use any amount of planning hours if you have tons of requests and a complicated event, we find that the vast majority (nearly 80%) of our couples use between 25 and 35 planning hours from the day they book their venue up to their wedding day. On the high end, for a single-day wedding, 60 hours is the most anyone has used. And for a multi-day event, 80 hours is the most. The lowest amount of hours we will allow a couple to book is 10, and all of those 10 hours would be allocated for the two months before your wedding for meetings between you and your planner to “hand off” the planning that you had already done. Some planners call this "wedding management."
We can estimate how many planning hours you will likely need using this chart
at the bottom of our proposal questionnaire.
Not exactly. To be able to coordinate a wedding, we need to fully understand what the plan is for the wedding so that we can execute it. We also need to get to know the couple (at least a little bit!) so that when unexpected issues arise (which they always do), we know how you’d like them resolved and can act as your representatives for all of the parts of the wedding day.
That said, we are happy to coordinate a wedding we didn’t plan as long as the handover from you to us happens in advance of the wedding. For this, you’d purchase fewer hours to begin with, complete all planning on your own up until 2 months before your wedding, and then hand it over to us! This requires about 10-15 planning hours on our end, plus whatever on-site coordination is needed. Most couples spend between $4000-5000 on this model of planning and coordination.
We completely understand that for many couples, this is outside of their budget for “day-of coordination,” but our rates are reflective of the personalized attention we provide and the behind-the-scenes work we put into every wedding. Our pricing also reflects not only our extensive experience but our relationships in the industry, which often result in our clients getting a higher level of service (and in some cases, discounts) from the other vendors they work with too!
If you read through our reviews, you will see many clients have hired us for this exact service, and the experience of our team executing to perfection all of your carefully planned details is priceless.
All of the planners on our team have different strategies, but in general, our secret is to plan for everything. We have backup plans for our backup plans, and a car full of tarps just in case of the worst. We are a well-oiled machine and have dealt with power outages, hurricanes, rouge waves, runaway brides, and literal fires. At this point, we have seen it all, so what is a high-pressure situation for you probably won’t be for us.
We also have an amazing staff team and great relationships with our vendors. If the worst happens, we will all work together to pull it off.
Yes, but only in the month before your wedding. If we receive your items too early, it can be difficult to keep track of everything! If you’ve booked wedding planning and coordination with us, the instructions for mailing items are in your planning portal.
You have the flexibility to choose your rental items whenever it suits you. You will work closely with your planner and use your online portal to curate the items you’d like to use during your event. We’ll need your final rental list at least two weeks before your wedding.
Visit our Rental Inventory page! If there’s something you want to know about that you do not see there, email us or text your planner! You can also check our rental Instagram page for photos of our rentals in action.
Email us to let us know! We are always adding rental items and maybe the thing you want is something we also want to add!
Yes! We reserve our rentals for our planning and coordination clients, but for dates we do not have a wedding booked, you can rent anything from our rental catalog. Pricing is in the catalog but does not include the labor and delivery fee (which depend on your venue and the quantity of items you are renting). Reach out to our team for an exact quote.
Absolutely! Once you book, you’ll have access to our extensive vendor list right at your fingertips. We always let couples know it’s a comprehensive list, but they’re often surprised by just how truly massive the "list" is. It is over 40 pages, indexed by category, with descriptions of every vendor, what they provide and why you might like to hire them. And we’re constantly adding and updating it to ensure you have the best possible choices.
An enthusiastic yes!!! Our commitment to supporting Hawaiian and historically marginalized businesses is a cornerstone of our approach to wedding planning. We prioritize these vendors whenever possible, ensuring your wedding not only reflects your vision but also contributes to a more equitable and inclusive community.
We will work with any vendors, even those who we did not recommend, unless they are blacklisted from our events. We have a very short list of vendors who we cannot trust to perform well on event days (due to past poor performance) or whose values are problematic (for example, will not work with LGBT clients) and who we refuse to work with. If you have a question about a specific vendor, please do not hesitate to ask - we are an open book!
As a general rule, we do not. We want all of our recommendations to you to be made without bias and for you to feel at ease with our team and trust our recommendations! Some vendors offer a commission, and we ask that the “commission” be passed along to our clients in the form of a discount. The vendors who offer a discount like that are noted in our vendor recommendation list.
There are two exceptions to this policy - room blocks and one of our rental companies. Room block commissions are something we receive from hotels in partnership with a local travel agent and any time they are offered, we waive any planning time associated with your room block. Essentially, we are paid by the hotel so we offer room block coordination as a complimentary service. You will not be billed for any hours we spend working on your room block.
When we receive rental company commissions (which do not increase the cost for you - we can either accept them or not - and it is not for all companies) we earmark that money for charitable giving. Each year we partner with the same local charity, Project Hawaii Inc, which provides services, meals, clothing, and more to homeless children in Hawaii. They are our chosen local charity and we (in collaboration with our couples) sponsor homeless Big Island teens during the holidays to provide them a Christmas. In 2023 we raised nearly $5000 from our commissions and donations from our couples and were able to sponsor over 60 teens!
Yes absolutely! It is situations like that that we created the Kickstarter package to address. Over the years, we unfortunately have had a lot of clients book a venue before doing their budget only to find out that they are not able to have the wedding they imagined at that venue, while also staying within budget. By working with us on super detailed draft budgets before you book, you can compare potential venues and be sure the venue you choose will be a fit for your wish list and financial comfort zone. And while it is not customized to your specific venue, you can also use our Big Island Wedding Budget Calculator to get a good ballpark for your wedding.
If it’s on the Big Island, probably! We have worked at nearly every venue (that we know of!) on the island. But if we haven’t, and it is a venue open to the public, we will waive our time for touring your venue and mapping it out for the first time.
Most venues on the Big Island have a 10 pm noise ordinance which means that events will need to end at 10. But restaurants and bars are zoned differently and can often go later. Knowing those end times when choosing a venue (or after-party spot), will be something we go over during your venue search. We also include end-time details in all of our complimentary venue recommendations.
This is such a hard one because the real answer is “it depends.” Budget depends on a lot of things but the main things are your expectations for your wedding and your guest count.
Regarding your expectations, some couples want a backyard BBQ vibe for their weddings with food trucks and paper plates. Those weddings are less expensive (although not less fun!) and their budget would be different, even for the same guest count, than a more up-scale wedding.
Some couples are eloping and doing micro-weddings, for them the lowest budget is much more flexible than if you want a ceremony and reception with 50 guests.
We offer a budget calculator tool for couples to get a feel for pricing on the Big Island. We highly recommend using it to see if the wedding you want is feasible within your financial comfort zone.
Destination weddings, in particular, vary widely in guest count, which is the biggest predictor of how much a wedding will cost. In 2024 our smallest wedding had 9 people and our largest wedding had 150, so those budgets are clearly not comparable and any average we could give you would be misleading. However, for a 50-guest wedding, our average budget is $45,000.
That said, we have a budget calculator resource for potential couples as a jumping-off point - just to see what is possible. We also have a spend category in our Destination Dossier that you can sort by budget so you can see what a wedding at a similar price point looks like!
We charge a travel fee for your lead planner (ranging from $50-$125), and for some venues that are a long way from your lead planner’s home, we also charge a hotel fee to stay overnight. That pricing will be clear in your initial proposal!
Every wedding is unique, but our experience allows us to fairly accurately estimate your staffing needs. While we require an assistant coordinator for weddings with over 50 guests, the specific requirements can vary based on the venue, event complexity, and the services our team is responsible for.
Catering also plays a significant role in determining staffing needs. Full-service caterers that handle everything from setup to cleanup may require less additional staff compared to restaurants offering simple party tray delivery. We'll tailor our staffing recommendations to ensure a seamless and enjoyable experience for you and your guests.
We accept credit cards, bank transfers, and checks. And also technically cash - although that is rare! All of our payments are processed through Stripe and we have a contract and payment software to keep everything super simple for you! We do not offer payment plans.
Insurance is Kate’s middle name. We have three types! It pays to be over-prepared. We have liability insurance, Errors and Omissions insurance and Property Insurance. Basically, if we mess up, in any way, we got you covered!
For weddings that are being held in venues without a liquor license, you will be required to have wedding liability insurance in place. Most hotels and restaurant venues also require liability insurance. This differs from cancellation insurance, which we recommend but do not require. Insurance is super easy to get and our Client Portal includes a helpful guide to obtaining your insurance and what is covered.
We’ve included a helpful guide in your Client Portal to assist our couples with obtaining their marriage license. The process is extremely quick and easy - the hardest part is making a appointment with a Registered Agent (kind of like a notary) in the days leading up to your wedding. That piece is something we can help you with if needed.
We know this sounds like a broken record but we have a guide in the Client Portal to assist you with that! It has all of the steps for a first-time officiant to get legally ordained and to submit a marriage license to make everything legal with the state of Hawaii.
Yes definitely! We have contacts with the sales teams at all of the Big Island hotels and will work with you to find a block that works for you and your guests. We offer this as a complimentary service (meaning we do not count the this task in your planning hours) because the hotels offer us a commission for bringing your block to the hotel. This is a service we offer both to clients and non-clients. So if you are reading this and are not hiring us as your planners, please feel free to reach out for help with your room block! It's free!
Our first step is to send you a room block explainer going over how room blocks work, and how to calculate how many rooms we should request with the hotel. Then our team reaches out to any hotels you are interested in for quotes and concessions and compiles the quotes for your review. We negotiate with the hotels on your behalf and review the final contract for you before you sign.
Get married in Arizona if you want to be sure it won’t rain on your wedding day—Hawaii is not the place for you. We are the Rainbow State for a reason! We get tons of rain!
However, even in the Rainbow State, you do not need to be super worried about your wedding day being ruined by rain. Even in the rainier parts of the island, it is unusual that it rains the entire day. We get a lot of short-passing tropical showers. Nearly every wedding we’ve coordinated has had some rain, and as you can see from our portfolio, they all had beautiful weddings.
We’re also rain experts—we have the best possible radar app from NOAA, a wagon filled with umbrellas, a giant bin of clear tarps, and a rain plan for every wedding.
There are areas of the island where it rains less though (we have a few venues in the literal desert), and if an outdoor wedding with no tent is important to you, we will talk through which venues are least likely to get rain and in which months. The Big Island has 11 climate zones, so it isn’t as simple as saying “These months are rainy and these months are dry.” Everywhere has its micro-climate to contend with, and that is why it is awesome to have wedding planners who live here year-round!
Sunshower started as an off-grid wedding venue on an organic farm, so a strong commitment to sustainability has been a central tenet of our business from the very beginning. We care deeply about our island and our planet and want to see it treated with respect. In fact, we are the only event planning company in the state to have ever been awarded a Green Business Award by the Governor.
Weddings, without thoughtful sustainability initiatives, can be huge generators of waste! So, we have sustainability strategies that we incorporate as much as possible into the events we plan and coordinate!
Native plants and local florals in decor— as much as possible we work with florists who are farmers and foragers so that as many flowers and greens as possible are local. Post-event, any florals not taken home by clients are disposed of using the following procedure: first, the couple and their guests and then event staff and vendors are given the option to take florals home to enjoy. After that, any extra florals are either donated with your instruction to Hospice of Kona or fed to Kate’s goats and/or composted if they are not healthy for goats.
Trash and Recycling—Events always come with a lot of trash, whether in the form of boxes, excess packaging, disposable plates, cups, etc. While we cannot prevent all of this waste, our policies and pricing were specifically crafted to limit this waste as much as possible from going to the landfill. First, we will not use single-use plastic, styrofoam, or waxed cardboard for catering. Clients who want disposables for their catering must use biodegradable cardboard, wood, and leaf options. Those biodegradable disposables go home to Kate’s farm after the wedding to compost. Second, we have reusable rentals for glassware, plates, flatware, etc. that are set at a price point low enough to hopefully encourage most if not all of our clients to choose reusable options. Some waste, most notably the large amount of recyclables produced from the bar service at events not using kegs, are not really preventable, but for events where we are handling the trash, our team will recycle all of the glass, aluminum, and plastic from the bar service.
Drinks On Tap—We love to work with tap trailers for bar service! They offer beer, seltzer, cocktails, and cider on tap! By using kegged drinks, rather than bottled and canned, we can save so much waste from the landfill and energy needed for recycling. Kegged drinks are also brewed here on the island and do not have to be shipped to Hawaii!
Food Waste—All of the food left over from events (that no one wants to eat of course!) as well as all of the plate scrapings and kitchen scraps go into a food bucket that your coordinator will bring to Kate’s farm to give to her chickens. The day after weddings is their FAVORITE day! They pretty much eat anything, but the things they don’t eat just biodegrade and we add them to our compost.
Locally Produced Food—While we cannot control where caterers are sourcing their ingredients, we do note on our vendor rec list which caterers specialize in using local ingredients, and we encourage our couples to work with those caterers as much as possible!
We do not specialize in that service. Occasionally we will have couples who have a ceremony on a public beach and we plan their reception, but the ceremony portion of their wedding is outsourced to other planners who specialize in that service. Public beach weddings are their own beast with all of the rules and permitting that comes along with it, and couples are best served working with a company that specializes in it.